Why I'm Coming Out As Gay

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Behind the scenes of Eugene Lee Yang's coming out video, "I'm Gay:" a never-before-seen look inside the mind of a young artist and his complex, dark struggles with his identity, his work, his public persona, and his private life.
A documentary video by Kane Diep @kanediep
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Executive Producer - Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer - Ned Fulmer
Executive Producer - Zach Kornfeld
Executive Producer - Eugene Lee Yang
Producer - Rachel Ann Cole
Producer - Nick Rufca
Production Manager - Alexandria Herring
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Editor - YB Chang
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Camera Operator - Miles Bonsignore
Production Assistant - Sam Johnson
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  1. Piddly Wink
    Piddly Wink
    10 dakika önce

    I'm a new Try Fan, and I'm slowly making my way through all your vids. Gotta say Eugene, we all knew already and support you. Your story made me cry a little.. and your ass made me question myself a little ;)

  2. Angie LuvsAnime
    Angie LuvsAnime
    46 dakika önce

    I think i get you... I'm 13 and i think i feel the way you felt as a child and still feel. So i guess i kinda get it in some ways. Only i'm not asian. Though i think i understand how you feel... Also, god damn the symbolism is amazing once you actually understand it.

  3. Annabel Lundgren
    Annabel Lundgren
    2 saatler önce

    Me to me: am I crying to much? Me: noo the world is still fucked cry all you want.

  4. Annabel Lundgren
    Annabel Lundgren
    2 saatler önce

    I don't know what I am (except a person). That doesn't bother me. I not scared to come out if I ever want to thanks to people like you Eugene. Thank you 🏳️‍🌈

  5. MintoToffee
    3 saatler önce

    This is VERY emotional Eugene. You did so well on this! I cant believe that people cant accept others for who they are! Doesent matter if you are gay, straight or whatever, as long as each individual being is happy. Keep making yourself happy. Your letter from your former self hit me hard. But in a Good reflective way

  6. Belen Ortiz
    Belen Ortiz
    4 saatler önce

    Dear Eugene, I'm so proud of Eugene coming out! I love you Eugene like always, also don't be sad be happy of who you are! Sincerely, THE TRY GUYS BIG FAN

  7. Oh_Yeah_Yeah
    5 saatler önce

    *You are gay? who would of known!* But legit glad you are happy know:)

  8. George Costarica
    George Costarica
    8 saatler önce

    You don't have to come out. It was obvious from the begining

  9. L1PTON
    9 saatler önce

    used to be the only guy i liked in this boring group. But now i fucking hate all of them.

  10. Billie Fingers
    Billie Fingers
    11 saatler önce

    I love Eugene's choreography! I've seen his try guy videos before but finding out he's also an incredible dancer and choreographer blew me away.

  11. C Az
    C Az
    13 saatler önce

    I am not surprised. There has been signs since day one of Try Guys. Just glad the weight is off his shoulder but sad he took so long. Imagine the stress he has going through that. At least he will have loving and supporting people around him. Take care and much love.

  12. Matei Corjos
    Matei Corjos
    14 saatler önce

    Is he really gay?

    1. Daniel Budik
      Daniel Budik
      5 saatler önce

      No, he's lesbian

  13. Danica Born
    Danica Born
    15 saatler önce

    As a Korean American who has thought every single one of these thoughts, let me just say thank you, Eugene. You've helped me a lot to come out to my parents, and this video gave me a push towards making plans for coming out to my more traditional Korean family. Thank you so much. You deserve happiness and I hope you soon find it.

    1. Danica Born
      Danica Born
      5 saatler önce

      @Daniel Budik Bitch wtf get out with your racist ass

    2. Daniel Budik
      Daniel Budik
      5 saatler önce

      Ni hao 🙏👲🐕🍽

  14. Zayda C
    Zayda C
    16 saatler önce

    You go Eugene, the people who you think will abandon you will stay if you are as close to them as they are to you

  15. Antoinette Marlow
    Antoinette Marlow
    16 saatler önce

    Here's the deal, Eugene - I've been watching the 'Try Guys' this past month & started out wondering WHY these 3 delightful, vulnerable, sweet, humble guys were hanging out with this egocentric, narcissistic, 'cool' to the point of cold but gloriously handsome & seemingly intelligent man (you). So in this way, by not "Coming Out" but having these WALLS up, you were perpetuating the Bad Guy persona. In fact, I didn't start really liking you until I watched you babysit Wes - AND as a young woman I HATED babysitting infants as I simply wasn't comfortable with a being I couldn't communicate with. I finally ended up understanding the same thing about myself - that I couldn't really emotionally bond with this baby However, I'd kill whoever tried to hurt it. So now, in taking on this project you are letting people like me understand where you're coming from & what you've been up against. That the WALLS were there in order for you to protect yourself & not because you wanted to separate yourself from everyone else because you thought you were better than us. Now, watching you prepare for this project (and watching these friends support, fund & believe in you), I'm so GRATEFUL that you're allowing your subscribers/fans/viewers to see the real you. I'm constantly telling my dear husband that it's a BRAVE choice to cry - it's courageous to embrace your feelings - and the bottom line is = It’s not your hair style or your face or color or confidence, your age or even your smile - It’s your HUMANITY that makes you truly BEAUTIFUL. With many hugs and much Love, Tonie Marlow PS I pray for happiness, FOR YOU!!

  16. Allie Sladek
    Allie Sladek
    17 saatler önce

    That purple ensemble is everything!

  17. spencer smith
    spencer smith
    18 saatler önce

    What a fag

  18. Hate full
    Hate full
    18 saatler önce

    I'm muslim . And i don't hate the LGBTQ community at all ... Just wanted to mention that after i noticed the woman who is wearing hijab in the final scene

  19. Aclysine
    19 saatler önce

    This video made me brave enough to come out to my parents as lesbian. Edit: my parents just accepted me for who I am. 💞🏳️‍🌈

  20. Lizzybee
    20 saatler önce


  21. Kawaai cow Kawaai
    Kawaai cow Kawaai
    Gün önce

    My favorite scene is the yellow scene

  22. atzo naftaniel
    atzo naftaniel
    Gün önce

    do we get to see the result? if so where?

  23. Taylor Gardner
    Taylor Gardner
    Gün önce

    If y'all didn't know this guy was gay idk wtf to do to help humanity, and why does it matter what kind of hole he fucks at night anyway?

  24. JJ_ Bro
    JJ_ Bro
    Gün önce

    I'm extremely happy for you Eugene. Most people make fun of me because I'm gay and I've just gotten used to it and I have had a crush on you (Eugene) ever since the try guys have started making videos and I want you to know that you deserve more than 2 cranes. You are a amazing person and I hope you live happily.

  25. Scruffy Rodriguez
    Scruffy Rodriguez
    Gün önce

    We knew

  26. E O
    E O
    Gün önce

    Eugene, you are a good person ❤️

  27. Luke A
    Luke A
    Gün önce


  28. MrNotSo Pink
    MrNotSo Pink
    Gün önce

    Wait, how is this news? I always assumed he was gay and out.

  29. madeline hina
    madeline hina
    Gün önce

    Try guys: What do we name this Eugene Eugene: Try guys try making a video that would be most important for Eugene

  30. James Chris
    James Chris
    Gün önce

    Because you need attention. Well at least it explains the severe lack of testosterone...

  31. Greens Galaxy
    Greens Galaxy
    Gün önce

    Good for you man

  32. Jasmine Gavina
    Jasmine Gavina
    Gün önce

    his parents could pass as his siblings! I need those genes lol loved this video

  33. Rude Pancake
    Rude Pancake
    Gün önce

    I think I might be part of the LGBTQ community but I’m still trying to sort my feelings out but one thing I have to say is I’m proud to see Eugene take a stand and say how he feels and what he is without anything stopping him anymore because he deserves the respect and appreciation as any other person

  34. Rude Pancake
    Rude Pancake
    Gün önce

    Yas Eugene, Queen

  35. Phryxil
    Gün önce


  36. Holly Y
    Holly Y
    Gün önce

    I knew a lot of time and effort and emotion would’ve gone into this but I never realised just how much ❤️❤️❤️

  37. cancersurvior2012
    Gün önce

    I’m stil kinda upset lol ugh I wanted to marry him 😭

  38. Настя Сапсан
    Настя Сапсан
    Gün önce

    Eugene thanks for sharing your story. It helps not only those who need support, it helped me to feel why person fine on outside would need it. I want to be compassionate and be supportive and helpful to people with pressure on them and insecurities and hard stories they don't want or don't know how to explain... But when you don't feel, know or imagine the what it really is or might be, because you've never have that experience, or felt that pressure, or self-disrespect, and whatever else! You are never sure and scared to do something wrong to person, or simply can't imagine that the person as confident and sure as, for example, you, have had this much trouble. So however compassionate you are trying to be, there's only a little chance you'd do and bring it right and enough. Until you know how it might be. Thank you very much for opening things and explaining them. This will have a good influence. Each one of those who wanna hug you is a person. Not a part of the mass, but a personality who is compassionate and want to give you support. Like, you have world hugging you. Again, thanks for giving us the ability to understand others who had deeper darker experiences we couldn't figure out on our own. Now we are able to understand some of whom we feel compassionate about better. @kanediep . Thank you for filming this documentary. Your calm does magic. I.. kinda try to tag everyone I could think about to get this to get shown to you, Eugene. I feel that you get a lot of thanks for help from LGBTQ+ and anyone who felt pressure in their lives but feared to come out or at least admit about a variety of things in their lives... But I wanted for you to know that you also helped the other part - ones who want to be compassionate ones, supportive ones, but are awkward ones, because never knew how deep that really could be. Now we can understand our friends, dear people and even recent strangers we want help to better. You helped more people than you imagined. You helped to make me better. @korndiddy @Try guys @Ned Fulmer @Keithhabs (I have no idea how to actually tag you. But I'll try. Worth a shot, heh?) @mandeephoto @thetrypod #TryGuys ? Edit: tags didn't work. Please, tag ones who can help to get this to Eugene or like it to bring this up in the comment section. Thanks to everyone who would help. Smile if you feel like it.

  39. Dash of Ting
    Dash of Ting
    Gün önce

    Don’t worry, boo. We knew you were gay and fabulous!

    Gün önce

    Such a beautiful video! Wow this is really inspiring me to do something similar! Go Eugene!

  41. Tina Ohbum
    Tina Ohbum
    Gün önce


  42. eliza washington
    eliza washington
    Gün önce

    The only way I really wanna have kids at this point is to take in queer kids who need a home, give them a safe place to live and teach them that they are worth a damn.

  43. Zach Miller
    Zach Miller
    Gün önce


  44. Kaziah Adjarho
    Kaziah Adjarho
    Gün önce

    I hope you are happy, and i hope you keep being you. Just because others say you are an outcast doesn't mean you are, your a beautiful person inside and outside.

  45. Zulús Cartoon
    Zulús Cartoon
    Gün önce

    Every hot guy is always taken or gay 😭❤️ but i still love him uwu

  46. VinciFox
    Gün önce

    Mayhem Miller: "It's a choice."

  47. Maelie Bailey
    Maelie Bailey
    Gün önce

    fuck all these thumbs down goddamn! boooooo love you Eugene

  48. Winston Smith
    Winston Smith
    Gün önce


  49. Stefan The Cannon
    Stefan The Cannon
    Gün önce

    I thought he was already out🤔🤷🏿‍♂️

  50. TheCrimsonFucker
    Gün önce

    Does this mean I might have a chance with Eugene now?