Loneliness

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Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors - and that our modern world can turn it into something that really hurts us. Why do we feel this way and what can we do about it?
Sources:
sites.google.com/view/sourcesloneliness/startseite
Books mentioned in the endcard:
'Emotional First Aid' by Guy Winch
www.amazon.com/Emotional-First-Aid-Rejection-Everyday/dp/0142181072/
'Loneliness' by John Cacioppo & William Patrick
www.amazon.com/Loneliness-Human-Nature-Social-Connection/dp/0393335283/
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  1. Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell
    Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell
    21 saatler önce

    We designed a poster on this topic as well. You can find it here: standard.tv/collections/in-a-nutshell/products/in-a-nutshell-loneliness-poster

    1. NickSfixs
      NickSfixs
      Saatler önce

      Kurzgesagt - In a Nutshell I love this, thank you

    2. Awkward Wolf
      Awkward Wolf
      Saatler önce

      Kurzgesagt - In a Nutshell my science teacher shows ur neuclear power videos in our class

    3. TK UA
      TK UA
      Saatler önce

      Kurzgesagt - In a Nutshell I’m a truck driver it’s hard to meet new ppl that will be long lasting friends. Plus, It’s hard to fade , and find someone to experience sex with

    4. Astral Embodiment of Sloth
      Astral Embodiment of Sloth
      2 saatler önce

      ok

  2. No Subscribers
    No Subscribers
    Saatler önce

    Why is this recommended to me?!

  3. Multiversal Sapien
    Multiversal Sapien
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    I hope this video might eventually change someone's life :)

  4. Cursed Phoenix
    Cursed Phoenix
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    This is the type of videos that need to be trending for youtube, and these are the types of videos that i need to watch to realize all my issues

  5. Shafikh T
    Shafikh T
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    #1 TRENDING!!

  6. Ben Perez
    Ben Perez
    Saatler önce

    Fml

  7. Jake Mirrors 831
    Jake Mirrors 831
    Saatler önce

    Would never think a video like this would make it to #1 trending on youtube

  8. Thunderhead
    Thunderhead
    Saatler önce

    I am in connection to this. I have a long distance relationship, countless online friends, and even pets. But I feel lonely all the time

  9. Dylan Chester
    Dylan Chester
    Saatler önce

    Oh hey it me

  10. ODIN
    ODIN
    Saatler önce

    I can be your friend. Just reply. Don't feel alone.

  11. TreeMobile.
    TreeMobile.
    Saatler önce

    you're a bastard kurzgesagt. I'm already past that.

  12. Celestial Dragon
    Celestial Dragon
    Saatler önce

    I wish I could be alone without feeling lonely.

  13. Akiko Palmer
    Akiko Palmer
    Saatler önce

    Ever since I got into my second year of university, I was not doing well mentally and emotionally. I was more sensitive and desperate for attention, locking myself away, not even checking my school email for important contacts. Lately it's turned into anxiety and feeling unsure on what I wanted to do with my life after spending so many years positive what I wanted to do. I found I wasn't happy where I was, especially when taking into account that loneliness had hit me harder than ever before. I was in a new city, away from family and all the friends I knew-- only my best friend came with me, and I'm always so scared that my clinging onto her will push her away (despite her constantly reassuring me otherwise). In order to put myself at ease, I started writing short term goals on sticky notes and putting them on the wall above my head when I lay down in bed. There are some along the lines of wanting to be better at cosplay or dancing more, and on some others, there's stickies about wanting to be more independent or social, but in the center of it all, I put "accept yourself," "like yourself," "love yourself," and "be happy." When I feel I've accomplished a sticky note, I decorate it however I want to signify a change within me-- a sprouting bud ready to flourish once all the others are decorated. Since then, I haven't had an episode. Sure, the loneliness still creeps up on me at times, but I'm able to suppress it when I start working toward my sticky note goals or when I just clean the apartment. It's not a perfect system, but it works in keeping me calm and ensuring I don't do anything that will harm my psyche. It really helps me breathe.

  14. 99,999,999 views
    99,999,999 views
    Saatler önce

    My social skill sucks

  15. Neroshi Interactive
    Neroshi Interactive
    Saatler önce

    Great video as always

  16. inferno
    inferno
    Saatler önce

    Holy shit -- this video is awesome.

  17. Mik Olinayag
    Mik Olinayag
    Saatler önce

    WE ALL LIFT TOGETHERRR

  18. NOS Huffer
    NOS Huffer
    Saatler önce

    Your copying Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy. This is their style exactly

  19. May May
    May May
    Saatler önce

    its sometimes good to be lonely....

  20. Real M
    Real M
    Saatler önce

    To be honest... I think it's largely where your from aswell. I am from England most of the people here are mean and bitter people. A lot of them are ugly chavs. When I go aboard people are so much happier and nicer. I guess it's to leave the country.

  21. Cool win
    Cool win
    Saatler önce

    It saddens me when I see people in the comment section talking about not having friends. I mean it's one thing not to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend but to have no friends is another. Good luck to everyone in the comment section.

  22. iTOXIIC-FORTNITE
    iTOXIIC-FORTNITE
    Saatler önce

    I have Social Anxiety issues and I hate it but I'm trying to overcome this disorder by reaching out to others and making people laugh. But socializing is not easy sometimes....

  23. Thekingofwatching
    Thekingofwatching
    Saatler önce

    I had a whole essay to respond to this. However, this Apple phone of mine didn’t keep it in memory. So I have very little way to post a calm reaction to this video. Another day perhaps.

  24. Liviu Adrian
    Liviu Adrian
    Saatler önce

    story of my life in a nutshell, one of isolation trials and constant failures

  25. Will Power
    Will Power
    Saatler önce

    What about purposely socially isolating yourself in order to chase a dream? I never feel lonely when I do that, just alone.

  26. FOX_0
    FOX_0
    Saatler önce

    I’m so glad I’m living in the universe where Kurzgesat exists.

  27. Will Power
    Will Power
    Saatler önce

    What about purposely socially isolating yourself in order to chase a dream? I never feel lonely when I do that, just alone.

  28. Kushal Malla
    Kushal Malla
    Saatler önce

    here are the birds?

  29. Tristan E
    Tristan E
    Saatler önce

    Wow, what a great episode. Thank you!

  30. Doggy Woof
    Doggy Woof
    Saatler önce

    #23 on trending

  31. MDivyakanth
    MDivyakanth
    Saatler önce

    please make more videos .. the time will come for me to support @Kurzgesagt. Thank you

  32. Pineapple Fried rice
    Pineapple Fried rice
    Saatler önce

    *puts this video on repeat bc it is the only thing that can explain and validate how u feel*

  33. stonetusk
    stonetusk
    Saatler önce

    desperately need help on this topic i watched the video but still dont understand will read those books in the description

  34. Tomislav Plese
    Tomislav Plese
    Saatler önce

    I have never felt anything similar to loneliness. While i understand it's obviously not normal, i wonder how common it is?

  35. reluctantmuggle
    reluctantmuggle
    Saatler önce

    I accidentally clicked on this and it feels like the universe called me out

  36. LetsPlaySagaraStyle
    LetsPlaySagaraStyle
    Saatler önce

    My problem is that I tend to be "that friend" that always help...but when I need someone to talk to they usually ignore me. There was this guy that asked me for a favor and ended up oweing me money and then he acted offended... I try to not feel lonely but I have troubles thinking everyone in my radius is finding a way to get something outta me.

  37. outlaw bassoon51
    outlaw bassoon51
    Saatler önce

    Im not lonely its just number 1 on trending

  38. Black Sig [SWP2000]
    Black Sig [SWP2000]
    Saatler önce

    #1 on trending

  39. hikingtotoro
    hikingtotoro
    Saatler önce

    yo!!!!!!!! NUMBER ONE ON TRENDING yee yee

  40. Steve Chan
    Steve Chan
    Saatler önce

    Now the thing is, I never feel lonely, I am just hugely pessimistic and don't believe anyone has good intentions

  41. Sax, dreads, And rock and roll
    Sax, dreads, And rock and roll
    Saatler önce

    You are not alone internet people

  42. ade putri
    ade putri
    Saatler önce

    Make a video about the history of mining please

  43. Revoosh Noj
    Revoosh Noj
    Saatler önce

    Fuck, I'm screwed

  44. VEV klips
    VEV klips
    Saatler önce

    *Ставь лайк, если Вова еще не вырубил ИНЕТ*

  45. Keep_It_Cotoure
    Keep_It_Cotoure
    Saatler önce

    Whoever disliked this video, I just wanna talk

  46. Thomas Thoburn
    Thomas Thoburn
    Saatler önce

    I feel ATTACKED

  47. Kobe Obi Wan Kenobi
    Kobe Obi Wan Kenobi
    Saatler önce

    I’m a high school sophomore and always feel alone around my friends. Some of my friends have girlfriends, whom which I am friendly with. But, for background, I lived most of my life in a shell because of shyness. Anyway, when I’m around friends I see them talking to each other and I see that they want to talk to them. No one ever wanted to talk to me. Unless it was for homework because I’m the only student who does it apparently. No one ever once seemed to want to talk to me. Not one friend for the past 4 years that I have lived in this place. No one time someone took an interest in me. Not one time did anyone take the time to ask how my day was or if they wanted hangout or how I felt. I guess no one cares. I guess they don’t care. No one ever looked at me and thought “ I wonder if we can hangout”. I constantly overhear people inviting other friends over to their house. I always wondered what they were doing or what were they going to do. But no one ever asked me. So, I know my life seems pretty sad, but I’m trying to fix it. Hopefully I will connect to my friends and build strong bonds with them. Thanks for listening.

  48. vighnesh kadam
    vighnesh kadam
    Saatler önce

    NO FOMO, Only JOMO!!!!

  49. депрессивный студент
    депрессивный студент
    Saatler önce

    So I have a pretty lonely experience throughout my schooling and university years I'd like to share, if you don't care about it then don't bother reading since it's pretty long and (probably) not worth your time. Ever since I went to University I pretty much went into the biggest social isolation I've ever experienced. Now this is nothing new for me, I've always been that one kid that doesn't really care about social interaction.I didn't have social anxiety, I just didn't bother talking to people. But even then I still had at least 1-2 people I could genuinely talk to. I've always had a bitter culture clash with more liberal (not political, cultural) people because I was raised on very tough discipline by my military family from Russia, meanwhile other people around here were more open about their sex life, and do drugs and other strange things I never really considered nor cared about like gender identity, dyed hair, etc., and I never really got used to it at all because it felt kind of alien to me, and it certainly brought disgust to my parents. The best way I could cope with it right now was learning patriotism (if you couldn't tell by the amazing pfp), listening to American march music, saying the pledge of allegiance every time I wake up, and many other things to pay respects. It may sound strange to many of you, but for me it just felt like the right thing to do as many people my age take their country for granted because they were born here and didn't get to choose where they were born, but my family and I did choose, and we chose this country to live in. When I was younger I didn't really care much for my new country, but it has helped my family and I much more than where we hailed from, and I've gotten very grateful for the opportunities it gave me because of that. Unfortunately, hawk-eyed readers can see that earlier I said that I had to learn patriotism because my school never really taught us much except the pledge of allegiance, a minor setback, but the Internet helped. University as a result of all this got a bit less painful, but if I'm being honest, it's still very rough and excruciating mentally and emotionally, however at least I can feel a bit more at ease when I see some ROTCs walking around, knowing they got our backs. I do apologize to anyone that doesn't agree with something I said, it's all my personal opinion and leave it at that. But yeah, that's my $0.02, thanks for taking the time to read it.

  50. A snake who got internet access
    A snake who got internet access
    Saatler önce

    This is literally me

  51. Ascii89
    Ascii89
    Saatler önce

    What is you get so used to being lonely, that any social events start causing anxiety?

  52. Kashif
    Kashif
    Saatler önce

    well then fuck me for being in a 3rd world country.

  53. Practical Wealth
    Practical Wealth
    Saatler önce

    Sadboy gang

  54. weeden bluntmen
    weeden bluntmen
    Saatler önce

    2.8 million losers watched this video lol just came to say that 👋

  55. NOVA KID
    NOVA KID
    Saatler önce

    I push people away to protect myself. I have always been judged and I cant Stand it. But now I'm happiest when im alone, but I don't want to seek social interaction. I plan on dying alone, and I'm totally okay with it. I really dont need anyone to talk to I prefer it that way.

  56. Pravus
    Pravus
    Saatler önce

    Holy shit, it's like this video was made specifically for me.

  57. Bugs00
    Bugs00
    Saatler önce

    My cat make me happy

  58. Mabok Kapal
    Mabok Kapal
    Saatler önce

    Orang Indonesia like

  59. AcGravity
    AcGravity
    Saatler önce

    I honestly hate to do this, but exposure is exposure I just recently uploaded a bunch of new, funny videos, and it’d really mean a lot if some people checked them out. I used to upload gameplay but my capture card isn’t working right, so it would be a great help to boost my channel! Don’t forget to subscribe!

  60. Redneal Zurcd
    Redneal Zurcd
    Saatler önce

    I'm alone! I'm not lonely.....am I?

  61. Joshua Utomo
    Joshua Utomo
    Saatler önce

    252k Loner likes this video 3k social beez dislikes it

  62. Lawgx
    Lawgx
    Saatler önce

    Ironic, how we gathered together because of loneliness and yet still feel lonely

  63. Quantum Crab
    Quantum Crab
    Saatler önce

    10:38 Birds! Good, just checking that this was a real kurzgesagt video.

  64. Hansel
    Hansel
    Saatler önce

    I feel personally attacked.

  65. The Bandog
    The Bandog
    Saatler önce

    "Loneliness is as deadly as *smoking a pack of cigarettes* a day." Me: Oh damn...

  66. Practical Wealth
    Practical Wealth
    Saatler önce

    My boy Benjamin makes sure I'm never lonely

  67. mradul agrawal
    mradul agrawal
    Saatler önce

    Upvote who feels themselves lonely

  68. Ean Line
    Ean Line
    Saatler önce

    Sub to me? Have a good day!

  69. John Taylor
    John Taylor
    Saatler önce

    pretty nice video...

  70. Alexis Sarabia
    Alexis Sarabia
    Saatler önce

    that character with the pink hair is so cute! i hope we can see more of her and her interactions in the Kurzgesagt world!

  71. Xavier Cohen-Diaz
    Xavier Cohen-Diaz
    Saatler önce

    I get it I'm lonely forever 👌

  72. Shaun Gamin
    Shaun Gamin
    Saatler önce

    Finally, a Kurzgesagt video that I am an expert in

  73. Darthwing Xodius
    Darthwing Xodius
    Saatler önce

    Woah #1 tending in the U.S here's a curve ball for you to think about the month of the day is Valentines

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    Let's be real most people suck!!! Anyway!

    1. Candy Godiva
      Candy Godiva
      Saatler önce

      Lol there are mean as shit.

  75. Jack mehico
    Jack mehico
    Saatler önce

    Modern world in the great depression literally

  76. Nathalie H
    Nathalie H
    Saatler önce

    remember that healthy relationships with others are important but a healthy one with yourself is too, so balance that shit!! you’re already whole ❤️

  77. Andrei Vidal
    Andrei Vidal
    Saatler önce

    Love your videos!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗

  78. All Pads 24 Ind
    All Pads 24 Ind
    Saatler önce

    Gamers never feel lonely

  79. AMARO
    AMARO
    Saatler önce

    What if I tell you every single person in the world is lonely. We are a lonely being that needs to socialize to progress.

  80. Jerry
    Jerry
    Saatler önce

    shut up

  81. raju kumar
    raju kumar
    Saatler önce

    To love at all is to be vulnerable - CS Lewis

  82. Brett Santacona
    Brett Santacona
    Saatler önce

    I am lonely and nobody really cares 😔

    1. Shirakawa
      Shirakawa
      Saatler önce

      Perhaps, you could ask your mom ^^

  83. Ismail Ishaque
    Ismail Ishaque
    Saatler önce

    Loneliness is something that Naruto, Sasuke, Kakashi, and Gaara had to deal with in the Naruto anime, but them being lonely led to them becoming insanely strong and an inspiration to all.

  84. Lawrence Lee
    Lawrence Lee
    Saatler önce

    hey guys lets all be friends

  85. aminoacidcereal
    aminoacidcereal
    Saatler önce

    did anyone else cried watching this video or am i just being overly sensitive today

  86. Mary Watanabe
    Mary Watanabe
    Saatler önce

    I should move to the city

  87. Keep_It_Cotoure
    Keep_It_Cotoure
    Saatler önce

    Figured a pewdiepie vid or a Shane Dawson vid or something but no. This is what humans think is necessary. This is what happens when depression rates rise. Can’t tell you how frustrating it is when I have been talking about this kind of stuff all the time.

  88. Scott Cook
    Scott Cook
    Saatler önce

    These are the most thoughtful comments I have seen on a youtube video in a long, long time. This video is a testament to the ability for regular people to be "normal" and talk about our feelings without the constant toxicity we're used to seeing. Thank you

  89. Sammy The Chihuahua
    Sammy The Chihuahua
    Saatler önce

    *Everybody feels lonely from time to time* Me: Sure... let's just leave it that way...

  90. Mif orbi
    Mif orbi
    Saatler önce

    I know of a place where you never get harmed a magical place with magical charm indoors! indoors!! indoors!!! take it away penny!

  91. Yousef Hammad
    Yousef Hammad
    Saatler önce

    I just wanted to say hi to whoever is reading this. Let's get some funny jokes going in the reply section

  92. Frox Tox
    Frox Tox
    Saatler önce

    moving to a new country really messed me up.

  93. Ahmir Rogers
    Ahmir Rogers
    Saatler önce

    I was thinking about going onto 4Chan lately... What depression level am I hitting?

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  95. CarDoor Guy
    CarDoor Guy
    Saatler önce

    Sooo uh, yall wanna be friends? 😂

  96. Forlorn Maiden
    Forlorn Maiden
    Saatler önce

    Still, what do I/we do about time. Anyways, to be honest I don't really want many friends and I like being alone, but not entirely. All I really want is for one person to love, and them to love me the same way and for us too understand each other. (and maybe a friend or two) But most people in this modern day and age act so different (compared to me) and are interested in such nonessential and random things (like all the popular trends), wich is fine. It just feels to me there's just no one to connect too.

  97. Rikorage
    Rikorage
    Saatler önce

    Congrats on being #1 on tending! Too bad it had to be such a somber topic, but it does seem like an important one. I've been working on this for myself for the last few years, and I still have reservations about going out. I've been going out more to the movies and to dinner with some people, and trying to not take much of anything too literally, as that tends to not be the best way to go about people.

  98. Fire Productions
    Fire Productions
    Saatler önce

    Giant gaping bloody hole in your stomach= lonely in cartoon logic

  99. Shadi Jabr
    Shadi Jabr
    Saatler önce

    I am not feeling lonely, but I am feeling unique, although my call list telling the opposite!

  100. Jomarco Martinez
    Jomarco Martinez
    Saatler önce

    I am mostly lonely